Coming Out

Dec
04
Forgiveness and Acceptance of Internalized Homophobia – LOP039

Forgiveness and Acceptance of Internalized Homophobia – LOP039

Gay men can lead others in a new model of forgiveness through their own healing of gay shame and understanding
1 min read
Dec
03
From Sissy Boys to Straight-Acting Gay Men

From Sissy Boys to Straight-Acting Gay Men

Forgiveness and Self-Acceptance Start with Understanding Our Gay Shame. Forgiveness allows you to live in the now, to have the
5 min read
Nov
01
Is Forgiveness of Homophobia a Gay Male Gift? LOP030

Is Forgiveness of Homophobia a Gay Male Gift? LOP030

In this episode, I speak about the challenge for gay men to forgive homophobia in their lives – be it from
1 min read
Aug
01
Ask Better Questions To Get What You Need – LOP010

Ask Better Questions To Get What You Need – LOP010

This episode was inspired by a recent post on my publication, Th-Ink Queerly about one person’s coming out process,
1 min read
Jul
25
How Gay Shame Limits Self-Worth and Personal Growth – LOP008

How Gay Shame Limits Self-Worth and Personal Growth – LOP008

Something I learned about myself some time ago, was how gay shame was holding me back and limiting my success.
1 min read
Jun
20
The Swinging Closet Door – LOP001

The Swinging Closet Door – LOP001

As gay men we are always coming out of the closet. First we come out as gay – as an admission to ourselves about who we are.
1 min read
May
29

Living OUT Podcast – Are You Straight-Acting?

Darren Stehle, Coaching Queer Leadership · What Does It Mean To Be Straight Acting? - Living OUT 29May18 What does it
Apr
06
I Knew I Was Gay When I Was Five Years Old

I Knew I Was Gay When I Was Five Years Old

For as long as I can remember I’ve always known, but for the longest time it wasn’t a
4 min read
Mar
26
What Does “Living OUT the Best of Me” Feel Like?

What Does “Living OUT the Best of Me” Feel Like?

As a gay man, what would it mean to live out the best of you? For me it’s about
4 min read
Mar
01
Shoving My Queer Agenda in Your Face — Take It!

Shoving My Queer Agenda in Your Face — Take It!

For as long as I can remember it’s always been a man and a woman. For as long as
3 min read