Fear of "The Other" is Defence of the Ego – LOP059
The basic human fear of anyone else who is unlike us, too dissimilar, or who holds a different view of
The Reluctance to Lead as Out Gay Men: Embracing Gay Spirit
The Living OUT Podcast — LOP058
“Gay spirit speaks to the vitality that gay men possess, which is palpable but defies
Do Actions Speak Louder Than Words? – LOP057
What we think is what we intend
When we speak our ideas and intentions, our words initiate action, whether that
The Hateful Prejudice and Elitism that is Jordan Peterson – LOP056
One of the promises made by the current Ontario PC government was that they would repeal the 2015 Ontario sex-ed
How to Communicate Better on Gay Dating Apps – LOP055
In the last episode I waxed nostalgic about, The Good Old Days of Meeting Men for Sex at Gay Bars
The Good Old Days of Meeting Men for Sex at Gay Bars – LOP054
I was 19 years old and had been going out to gay bars for about six months. It was a
There Is No Space Between Us In The Gap – LOP053
Today’s episode takes the form of a meditative thought experiment.
An awareness came through me this morning while moving
Authentic Masculinity Is The Best A Man Can Get – LOP052
Praise for Gillette’s #MeToo ad on 'toxic masculinity'
What is the opposite of toxic masculinity? I would
Why We Need to Engage Critics and Defuse Outrage – LOP051
Dealing with criticism versus personal attack
When someone responds with a criticism or attack on my articles or podcast, that’
Gay Men, Resilience, and Our Chosen Family – LOP050
It’s Story Time…
It was 1999 and I had recently moved to Toronto. The day after I broke up
