Personal Growth

Feb
16
What I Learned About Loving My Body As A Gay Man

What I Learned About Loving My Body As A Gay Man

Everyone has a story about their body. Some of us want to look great for the beach, to feel powerful
6 min read
Feb
14
The 10 Commandments for Being a Respectable Gay Man

The 10 Commandments for Being a Respectable Gay Man

Behold! The 10 Commandments of heteronormativity for gay men who want to fit in, fall in line, and be respectable.
3 min read
Feb
13
By Fitting In Have You Left the Best Parts of You In The Closet?

By Fitting In Have You Left the Best Parts of You In The Closet?

One of my biggest realizations from reading The Velvet Rage by Alan Downs was that my success in life is
5 min read
Feb
08
You’re Gay, Out, and Successful – Is That All There Is?

You’re Gay, Out, and Successful – Is That All There Is?

The trappings of normality in the straight world come with a cost. Fitting in requires an investment of false energy
4 min read
Feb
05
Why It’s Never Too Late to Change, No Matter How Old You Are

Why It’s Never Too Late to Change, No Matter How Old You Are

On Saturday, January 27, 2018 I was interviewed by my friend and media-personality, Shaun Proulx on his SiriusXM Canada show.
3 min read
Jan
31
If You’re a Gay Man, Do You Feel Good Enough?

If You’re a Gay Man, Do You Feel Good Enough?

For many gay men it’s challenging to feel good enough, like we belong, and have an equal place in
4 min read
Jan
25
Why Did The Faggot Become A Personal Trainer?

Why Did The Faggot Become A Personal Trainer?

Growing up I was a sickly, scrawny, hyperactive child. I had many allergies to foods and the environment. At a
5 min read
Jan
22
Reinvent Yourself: I Broke Up With Him Yesterday And Now I’m Free

Reinvent Yourself: I Broke Up With Him Yesterday And Now I’m Free

I had to finally let him go. It wasn’t sudden or unexpected. Our relationship has been breaking down for
3 min read
Jan
15
Do You Know Your Passion And How To Live It?

Do You Know Your Passion And How To Live It?

There have been many times in my life when I knew what I wanted, without doubt or hesitation. Looking back,
3 min read
Jan
11
How Does It Feel When You’re Living Your Calling?

How Does It Feel When You’re Living Your Calling?

Over the last two months I’ve had very little sense of time. I’ve been focused on writing every
5 min read