Personal Growth

Jul
23
Have You Left The Best Parts Of You In The Closet?

Have You Left The Best Parts Of You In The Closet?

There are two examples from my life when I was living fully out, gay and proud, and expressing who I
6 min read
Jun
12
These Two Simple Words Will Make Your New Habits Stick – LOP090

These Two Simple Words Will Make Your New Habits Stick – LOP090

Why Saying “I Can’t” or “No” Won’t Help Change Your Behaviour Some time ago I was following up
2 min read
May
23
Feeling Sorry for Yourself? How to Overcome that Problem – LOP087

Feeling Sorry for Yourself? How to Overcome that Problem – LOP087

One morning about four years ago I was feeling sorry for myself. I had been wallowing in self pity and
3 min read
Apr
11
The Many Paths of Living OUT Leadership – LOP076

The Many Paths of Living OUT Leadership – LOP076

We Are Living in Troubled Times. Many of us feel compelled to do something, to affect change, but we might
1 min read
Mar
30
"Are Gay Men REALLY Different?"

"Are Gay Men REALLY Different?"

What’s right with gay men. Recently, YouTube superstar, Davey Wavey released the video, "Are Gay Men REALLY Different?
1 min read
Mar
28
How Can You Use Your Difference to Make a Difference? LOP072

How Can You Use Your Difference to Make a Difference? LOP072

As a gay man, what does it mean to live OUT the best of who you are? For me it&
3 min read
Mar
21
How to Control and Reduce The Toxic Stress of Homophobia – LOP070

How to Control and Reduce The Toxic Stress of Homophobia – LOP070

Last week I was listening to Jonathan Van Ness’ podcast, Getting Curious (whom many of you might know from the
2 min read
Mar
14
Saying Yes to Everything Will Get You Nothing You Want – LOP068

Saying Yes to Everything Will Get You Nothing You Want – LOP068

Are you a “Yes-person”, someone who says yes to everything, because you think if you don’t, people might not
1 min read
Mar
11
Being At Ease With Yourself – LOP067

Being At Ease With Yourself – LOP067

“…from the standpoint of the ego, the universe is seen as the “other.” The ego concludes that this “other” is
2 min read
Mar
07
Life Is What You Make It: Don't Backdate It – LOP066

Life Is What You Make It: Don't Backdate It – LOP066

When Your Heroes Start Dying. Baby, life's what you make it Can't escape it Baby, yesterday&
2 min read