homophobia

Dec
27
If Fear Is the Mind Killer What Is Its Opposite? LOP046

If Fear Is the Mind Killer What Is Its Opposite? LOP046

The fewer fears we have the more open-minded and accepting we are of possibilities and variations in all aspects of
3 min read
Dec
06
How My Parents Influenced My Gay Male Identity – LOP040

How My Parents Influenced My Gay Male Identity – LOP040

Our earliest influences that form who we become as adults start with our parents. While I am certainly not saying
2 min read
Dec
04
Forgiveness and Acceptance of Internalized Homophobia – LOP039

Forgiveness and Acceptance of Internalized Homophobia – LOP039

Gay men can lead others in a new model of forgiveness through their own healing of gay shame and understanding
1 min read
Dec
03
From Sissy Boys to Straight-Acting Gay Men

From Sissy Boys to Straight-Acting Gay Men

Forgiveness and Self-Acceptance Start with Understanding Our Gay Shame. Forgiveness allows you to live in the now, to have the
5 min read
Nov
01
Is Forgiveness of Homophobia a Gay Male Gift? LOP030

Is Forgiveness of Homophobia a Gay Male Gift? LOP030

In this episode, I speak about the challenge for gay men to forgive homophobia in their lives – be it from
1 min read
Jun
20
The Swinging Closet Door – LOP001

The Swinging Closet Door – LOP001

As gay men we are always coming out of the closet. First we come out as gay – as an admission to ourselves about who we are.
1 min read
Jun
13
Straight-Acting Versus Being Your Authentic Gay Self

Straight-Acting Versus Being Your Authentic Gay Self

Last week I was interviewed on the Shaun Proulx Show on Sirius XM Canada Talks 167. Shaun and I talked
1 min read
May
29

Living OUT Podcast – Are You Straight-Acting?

Darren Stehle, Coaching Queer Leadership · What Does It Mean To Be Straight Acting? - Living OUT 29May18 What does it
Feb
14
The 10 Commandments for Being a Respectable Gay Man

The 10 Commandments for Being a Respectable Gay Man

Behold! The 10 Commandments of heteronormativity for gay men who want to fit in, fall in line, and be respectable.
3 min read