18
May
Rethinking Success to Embrace What Makes Me Happy
How my old beliefs about success keep me in the closet — and what I've learned.
3 min read
gay shame
29
Jun
I Was Taught Not To Dream Big — This Fed My Fear of Failure and Limited My Accomplishments
Ever since I was a little boy, I’ve dreamt small.
I was a sickly child with severe ADHD. I
1 min read
12
May
As a Gay Man, What Do You Believe About Sex, Love, and Relationships?
How gay shame intersects with your ability to feel acceptance, connection, and care — in other words, love.
One of my
6 min read
08
Apr
Forget Affirmations, What You Need Are 'Statements of Self-Truth'
Why your personal truth and current reality kick sand in the face of positive thinking and affirmations.
In a recent
4 min read
27
Jul
Do Gay Men Need to Forgive Themselves for Gay Shame?
Forgiveness Allows You to Live in the Now — Think Queerly Podcast.
A few weeks ago I received a comment on
2 min read
22
Apr
Why Gay Shame Is Your Superpower
Diversity is a gift of uniqueness and creativity
When did you realize that you had to forgive yourself first, before
1 min read
11
Jul
The Prejudice of PrEP: You’re Fucked if You Don’t Bareback
Bareback Privilege and the Demise of Risk-Aversion
There’s a new kind of gay male sexual privilege, one that’s
5 min read
03
Dec
From Sissy Boys to Straight-Acting Gay Men
Forgiveness and Self-Acceptance Start with Understanding Our Gay Shame.
Forgiveness allows you to live in the now, to have the
5 min read
25
Jul
How Gay Shame Limits Self-Worth and Personal Growth – LOP008
Something I learned about myself some time ago, was how gay shame was holding me back and limiting my success.
1 min read