From Silence to the Deafening Disturbance of Difference


When everyone is shouting over everyone else, does anyone have a discernible message, one that breaks through to hearts and minds? It often feels like everyone is speaking at a level that is loud and not in a form we would call dialogue. On social media, in the news, or in person we see shouting, personal attacks, and arguing to prove one’s point...

How to Let Go of Being Right to Be Who You Are – LOP018


Needing to be right is not who you are. In this episode I look at why we often go on the defensive about what we believe to be right, why we attack so easily when confronted with something we don’t agree with or believe in, and what that says about who we are.  Below are the key quotations I reference from the podcast, Ram Dass Here and...

How We Treat Each Other Reflects Who We Are


Values, communication, and respect in the dark ages of Trump. What’s wrong in the world? What’s wrong is that I’m seeing far too many issues with people who, Seem to have a god-complex;Think they’re right, and you’re wrong (discussion not optional), and;Seem to fight only for what they believe in, ignoring logic...

Darren is a leadership coach in Toronto, Canada who helps his clients to connect and embrace their uniqueness and freely create the life they want. He writes and podcasts regularly about Queer Leadership.