CategoryThink Queerly Podcast

Think Queerly is a podcast about human-hearted leadership for queer-thinking people where I share my insights as a coach and thought leader through an intersection of self-examination, queerness, neuroscience, and my study of the Tao Te Ching. My intention is to help you see the world differently, to think queerly, to lead from your uniqueness, and to create solutions for the betterment of humanity that impacts the world.


How Can We Be Exceptional Leaders? LOP005


Setting a standard of leadership starts with self-awareness One of the many test of leadership is seen when the leader must make difficult decisions that affect other people. True leadership is borne when others look to you for guidance. They might want to follow you, mimic you, or stand with you for what you believe is right and just. They will...

Pride: Party, Protest, Or Both? – LOP004


If pride remains a protest, where does that leave us? Pride will always be political so long as it continues to exist. Pride, as a celebration – because it is celebrated – is a priori political because of its origins. Even to those to whom Pride only seems a big party, the nature and existence of Pride is built upon the foundations of a political...

Are You A Top Or A Bottom? – LOP003


Let’s talk about sex! How does a sexual position make you feel and what does that say about you? Are you versatile, or do you only like it one way? What was the impact of your first sexual experience on how you perceive pleasure and the development of your identity? What does control mean to you with respect to sex? I realize that much of my...

Do You Know What You Want? – LOP002


It seems such a simple question: What do you want? But do you know? This not about wanting things like a car, furniture, or making more money. Instead this question is about something much deeper. It’s about connecting with your core values and what your life would be like if you could finally have what you really want. What often happens...

Living OUT Podcast Intro Episode – LOP000


This is the introductory episode of the Living OUT Podcast – helping gay men live out the best of who they are. In this short episode I’ll tell you what the show is about, some of the topics I’ll be talking about, a brief bio about who I am, and why I’m doing this podcast. Find me on Twitter and Medium: @darrenstehle...

Darren is a leadership coach in Toronto, Canada who helps his clients to connect and embrace their uniqueness and freely create the life they want. He writes and podcasts regularly about Queer Leadership.