Darren Stehle

Darren Stehle

Montreal
You make a real difference in the world every time you stand up courageously and proudly for what you know is right, ethically supporting a common humanity of dignity and equity.
Oct
03
Self-Sabotage is the Shame-Filled Mistake of Personal Development

Self-Sabotage is the Shame-Filled Mistake of Personal Development

How to Expand Your Comfort Zone and Improve Your Life by Using this Simple Process. Recently, I’ve been reading
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Sep
30
When You Change the Way You Look at Things, the Things You Look at Change

When You Change the Way You Look at Things, the Things You Look at Change

Thinking Queerly: 52-Weeks of Critical Reflections On Liberating Humanity, Week 3. What Do You See in the Darkness? It is
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Sep
03
Beauty Is Judgement In the Eye of the Beholder

Beauty Is Judgement In the Eye of the Beholder

Dualities create unconscious belief systems that foster prejudice. “When the world knows beauty as beauty, ugliness arises When it knows
4 min read
Aug
19
The Way of No Contention

The Way of No Contention

One of the 6 Principles of Human-Hearted Leadership “The way for humans is to act without contention.” The above is
2 min read
Aug
07
How Can We Understand Gender Within the Fluidity of Human Nature?

How Can We Understand Gender Within the Fluidity of Human Nature?

Thinking Queerly: 52-Weeks of Critical Reflections On Liberating Humanity — Week 2 Fighting against gender and sexual fluidity is a fight
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Aug
01
How the Murder of a 12-Year Old Boy Shaped My Queerness

How the Murder of a 12-Year Old Boy Shaped My Queerness

The Story of Emanuel Jaques and Me—TQ139 On this day 43 years ago, on August 1, 1977, I was
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Jul
27
Do Gay Men Need to Forgive Themselves for Gay Shame?

Do Gay Men Need to Forgive Themselves for Gay Shame?

Forgiveness Allows You to Live in the Now — Think Queerly Podcast. A few weeks ago I received a comment on
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Jul
16
To Kill Your Darlings — Move Forward By Letting Go

To Kill Your Darlings — Move Forward By Letting Go

The end of the narrative for my publication, Th-Ink Queerly Over the weekend I wasn’t feeling well, worn out
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Jul
10
From Silence to the Deafening Disturbance of Difference

From Silence to the Deafening Disturbance of Difference

When everyone is shouting over everyone else, does anyone have a discernible message, one that breaks through to hearts and
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Jun
30
Celebrating the 2-Year Podcasting Anniversary of Think Queerly

Celebrating the 2-Year Podcasting Anniversary of Think Queerly

Two years ago on June 20, 2018, I launched my first podcast. It was called, The Living OUT Podcast, a
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