Why Anger Is Selfish — How to Lead From Unconscious Goodness Instead

For many of us, the results of the election in the United States on Wednesday, November 6, 2024 were disheartening.

All day, I was thinking how I could respond, or if I should even bother. I knew that a rant or expressing my anger and frustration would be unhelpful and unskillful. My intention as a human-hearted leader is to share my wisdom and guidance with others who also want to make a meaningful difference in the world.

I don't have all the answers, but I was seeking some kind of solution or way of thinking and being that I could share with you.

And then, by not forcing myself to come up with a response, the answer to my query became clear.

Anger is selfish and blocks goodness.

In chapter 38 of Lin Yutang's translation of the Tao Te Ching, "The Wisdom of Laotse" he suggests that,

"Taoism lays great emphasis on unconscious goodness, goodness that is natural and without motivation. The moment goodness is motivated, it is regarded as a decline or deviation from Tao."

When your dominant emotion is "anger at someone or something" your entire focus is self-centred and self-serving, blocking or limiting acceptance, open-mindedness, respect, and understanding for others and the common good.

Enjoy today's video and let me know how you might find ways to "allow for" unconscious goodness in your life.

BE WELL!

Darren