Are You Tired Of Holding Back Your Queerness?
Imagine never having to worry about,
Am I being too gay?
Seriously? What the fuck is that? And yes, I have asked myself the same fucking question and I felt like SHIT for even considering if my actions were too gay.
This is called internalized homophobia, and it’s exactly what heteronormative society WANTS us to feel.
When we feel ashamed of who we are we hide our truth, our gifts, our talents, and we hold back our voice.
Take a moment and let that last thought sink in…
Fuck Being Nice!
Nice is simply another word to describe something normal, acceptable, conforming, and acceptable. I’m not advocating being mean, disrespectful, or a horrible person! When we are “nice” it also means we are fitting in, not messing with the status quo.
Change Is Disruption. Being Openly Queer Is Disruptive.
As a gay man you have insights and empathy as a result of having grown up in the closet. You had to suppress who you were and deal with the shame of being different. You didn’t deserve to feel shame, but even if you grew up in a loving home, society at large reinforced that you were damaged and not ordinary.
Our community has taken back words like fag and queer. Let me declare that we are NOT ordinary. We are NOT like the norm. Nor do we have to conform if we don’t want to.
We are extra-fucking-ordinarily-fabulous people! 🙂 🏳️🌈
Darren coaches gay men to break out of the heteronormative box that fucks with being who they really are.
The only thing that’s impossible is the action not taken.
Break Out of the Box That FUCKS with Who You Want to Be!
Find out what’s holding you back with these 7 short, insightful, and fun videos and get back to being who you really are!